{"id":637,"date":"2004-10-14T09:43:07","date_gmt":"2004-10-14T17:43:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/maganda.org\/wordpress\/?p=637"},"modified":"2004-10-14T09:43:07","modified_gmt":"2004-10-14T17:43:07","slug":"no","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/maganda.org\/wordpress\/2004\/10\/14\/no\/","title":{"rendered":"No!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There are a lot of things I&#8217;m not good at. I can&#8217;t throw a ball to save my life. I have a heck of a time balancing a checkbook. I get stage fright in front of big crowds. If I were a superhero, Rama and I joke, one of my weaknesses would be that I am too nice. I don&#8217;t know how to say &#8220;No.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>This year, however, one of my unwritten resolutions has been to find my limit and stick with it. To take, as well as give. To slow down.<\/p>\n<p>But somehow, as another year&#8217;s end approaches, when the resolutions are a faraway memory, I am forgetting it all. I am trying to do way too much, and it&#8217;s making my head spin. My project list is longer than its ever been, and the deadlines are approaching before I can blink twice.<\/p>\n<p>Part of me thinks this way is the only way. <i>Life is short,<\/i> a voice in my head says, <i>and you better do all that you can while you can.<\/i> But another voice laughs and retorts, <i>Don&#8217;t forget to slow down and enjoy the ride. Life is short.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>I want to learn how to slow down.<br \/>\nI want to learn the difference between challenging myself and driving myself mad.<br \/>\nI want to spend a day without a list of deadlines and to-do&#8217;s.<br \/>\nI want to say&#8211;rather, <i>shout<\/i> out loud&#8211;No!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are a lot of things I&#8217;m not good at. I can&#8217;t throw a ball to save my life. I have a heck of a time balancing a checkbook. I get stage fright in front of big crowds. If I were a superhero, Rama and I joke, one of my weaknesses would be that I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/maganda.org\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/637"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/maganda.org\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/maganda.org\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/maganda.org\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/maganda.org\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=637"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/maganda.org\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/637\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/maganda.org\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=637"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/maganda.org\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=637"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/maganda.org\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=637"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}