{"id":660,"date":"2004-12-30T18:05:58","date_gmt":"2004-12-31T02:05:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/maganda.org\/wordpress\/?p=660"},"modified":"2004-12-30T18:05:58","modified_gmt":"2004-12-31T02:05:58","slug":"perspective","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/maganda.org\/wordpress\/2004\/12\/30\/perspective\/","title":{"rendered":"Perspective"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>All day long, I waited for the Volkswagen Dealership to call me. I&#8217;d brought my car in at 8 and it was supposed to be ready by noon, but of course, noon became 1 o&#8217;clock and 1 o&#8217;clock became 3. The problem was nothing major: The front passenger car door wouldn&#8217;t open from the outside. It was covered under warranty, so it didn&#8217;t even cost me anything to fix. It was just a hassle.<\/p>\n<p>At 4, my car still wasn&#8217;t ready and my co-worker&#8211;who had graciously played chauffeur to me the whole day&#8211;had to go home, so she dropped me off and I joined the other VW owners sitting on black vinyl chairs and cradling styrofoam cups in their hands.<\/p>\n<p>The waiting room TV was set to ABC and the news was on. I hadn&#8217;t watched any of the tsunami coverage on TV until then. Seeing the top stories on the web&#8211;and watching the death toll rise several times a day&#8211;was devastating enough. Seeing the survivors and hearing their stories on the television, well, that left me completely dumbfounded.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This is so awful,&#8221; I sighed, to nobody in particular.<\/p>\n<p>The girl beside me answered: &#8220;I know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She looked my age or younger. Her skin was flawless and her lips shone. She had a kind face, one you&#8217;d expect on a nurse, or a teacher, or an angel.<\/p>\n<p>I continued, &#8220;It makes me feel like my car troubles are nothing at all, you know? Some of those people have lost their homes and family members. I just can&#8217;t fathom that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yeah. It puts everything into perspective.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>We traded stories about our cars as if they were our children then fell back into silence, staring at the screen. A few minutes later, her name was called and she started to gather her things. Then she turned to me.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;May I read you something before I go?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She reached into her purse and pulled out a little black book. &#8220;It&#8217;s my favorite passage in the Bible. It always brings me comfort.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>My heart sank. I knew where this was going. In college, I was the target of a dozen or so evangelical Christians. Maybe I looked like I needed saving, or maybe I just looked like I&#8217;d listen&#8211;I&#8217;m not sure. All I know is I started to resent those students who were constantly invading my space and privacy. I didn&#8217;t like being quizzed, questioned, schooled, or worse, condemned.<\/p>\n<p>I started to prepare my best comeback, a polite but firm &#8220;please go away&#8221; speech, as the girl found the page. She read the passage to me, quietly and calmly, following the words with her finger.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Maybe you&#8217;ve heard it before,&#8221; she said, &#8220;but I like it because it reminds me that this world is bigger than our comprehension and God is always with us.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I <i>had<\/i> heard it before, and it <i>was<\/i> comforting.<\/p>\n<p>The girl closed the Bible and slipped it back in her bag, then got up to go just like she said she would. She didn&#8217;t want to prove anything to me or expect something in return. She just wanted to give me some hope and faith. It was a gentle gesture.<\/p>\n<p>I sat on that black vinyl chair, looked up at the TV and clutched my bag closer to my lap. It was all I could do not to cry.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>All day long, I waited for the Volkswagen Dealership to call me. I&#8217;d brought my car in at 8 and it was supposed to be ready by noon, but of course, noon became 1 o&#8217;clock and 1 o&#8217;clock became 3. The problem was nothing major: The front passenger car door wouldn&#8217;t open from the outside. 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